If you’ve ever strolled through the vibrant streets of Bangkok, Pattaya, or Chiang Mai, chances are you’ve seen them—stunning showgirls, makeup queens, and fierce femmes lighting up the scene. We’re talking about Thailand’s legendary ladyboys, known locally as kathoey (กะเทย).
But beyond the glitter and glam lies a deeper story—one that’s rich with culture, identity, and healthcare challenges that matter.
In Thai culture, the word kathoey typically refers to someone assigned male at birth who expresses themselves as female. Some identify as transgender women, others as non-binary, and some embrace femininity without subscribing to specific labels.
While the word “ladyboy” is commonly used in Thailand and among tourists, it’s important to use it respectfully, as it can be seen as reductive or offensive in certain contexts.
Fun fact: Not all kathoey identify as transgender. In Thailand, the concept blends gender expression, performance, and personal identity in ways that don’t always fit neatly into Western LGBTQ+ categories.
Thailand is often seen as more open toward gender diversity than many places, with kathoey featured in entertainment, beauty pageants, and popular media.
But visibility doesn't always mean equality.
Challenges many kathoey still face:
So while the beauty is undeniable, the struggle for legal recognition and full inclusion continues.
One of the most pressing issues for kathoey is healthcare access, especially around gender-affirming care. Many undergo physical transition through hormones and surgery—but often without proper medical supervision.
Estrogen and anti-androgens are widely used by kathoey to feminize their appearance. However, many obtain them over the counter or from unregulated sources, leading to risks like:
Always consult a healthcare provider before starting hormone therapy—your body deserves care, not guesswork.
Thailand is known for its world-class surgeons in gender-confirmation procedures. However, these services can be inaccessible to Thai nationals due to high costs or lack of insurance coverage.
Trans women in Southeast Asia, including kathoey, face disproportionately high rates of HIV infection, especially in sex work settings.
Contributing factors include:
While kathoey are often included under the LGBTQ+ umbrella, it’s important to understand that gender identity (like being transgender) is different from sexual orientation (like being gay).
That means while we stand together, we must also recognize the unique struggles and needs of trans and gender-diverse communities.
Thailand’s cabaret shows and nightlife often attract curious tourists. But let’s make one thing clear: ladyboys are not tourist attractions—they’re people.
❌ Don’t ask invasive questions
❌ Don’t assume someone’s a sex worker
❌ Don’t use “ladyboy” as a joke
✅ Use correct names and pronouns
✅ Compliment the outfit (duh!)
✅ Support local LGBTQ+ businesses and artists
At PULSE CLINIC (Social Enterprise), they advocate for inclusive, respectful, and accessible healthcare for every gender identity. That means:
No one should have to choose between being fabulous and being healthy.
Here are some great organizations and clinics doing powerful work in Thailand:
Ladyboys—kathoey—are more than an icon of Thai nightlife. They are movers, creators, and survivors, living boldly in a world that doesn’t always make room for them.
Let’s celebrate their courage, support their healthcare, and learn from their radiant resilience.